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How Would You Like to Be Described

So, this is a question that basically asks how you want people to see you.  There are people that worry about what people think of you and then there are those that just don't give a fuck.  Sadly, I'm in the first group, not the second one.

Nice, kind, caring.  Those are words that I would probably use, but not necessarily be proud of.  Why you may ask?  Well, those don't get me anywhere.  I also tend to think I'm funny, but that's a matter of opinion.

There is also the question that has been asked in surveys and such about what would you rather be, smart or beautiful.  Most people pick beautiful.  And that actually makes a lot of sense.  Beautiful people get things easier.

That's not saying that I don't like being smart (well, I think I'm somewhat smart at least).  It has a lot of benefits.  But it's been said a lot that smart people tend to be more miserable and I can't argue with that.

This question also comes up when you need to describe yourself in something.  I signed up for Match almost a month ago.  There is the main section where you write a summary about yourself.  I know why it's there, but that's always a hard question for anyone.

No one likes to describe themselves.  I actually have thought about letting some of my friends actually either rewrite the whole section or maybe just add an addendum to it.  It's always easier to hear it someone else describe you.  It could also be rather hard if you hear things you don't want to hear.

But that's a good thing.  It's good to hear the negatives about you.  It may be something that you can improve on.  Or it could just be something that you actually have no problem with and just doesn't click with the other person. 

So how would I describe myself.  I don't really know.  Maybe a rambler would be the best answer.  Cause that's mostly what I do anyways.

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